Hidden World of Foster Care (FMF)

What a perfect topic. I wanted to share something about an event I helped with yesterday and it is a great example of how the world of foster care is hidden.

The county social services put on an art day. It was a day for children who have or previously had social services involved in their lives. Businesses in the community donated breakfast and lunch, paints and canvases; people volunteered bringing therapy dogs and face painting and fitness and many, many things.

But this was not advertised in the newspaper. No one outside the realm of foster care knows. For the kid’s privacy sake. Because that world is confidential; hidden for many people.

Sometimes I get frustrated because people ignore the needs of foster care. But I realize that sometimes the needs are just hidden.

My hope is to share the world of foster care- reveal it to others;

to you.


Five Minute Friday is a link-up where you free write for 5 minutes on the topic. This week’s topic is Hidden. Find other blogger’s interpretations here.

This is my 50th post! And a perfect way to reiterate my purpose for this blog. Whoo-hoo!


Help (FMF)

“Help. I’m lost.”

There is a scene in the movie Lilo and Stitch (which, if you couldn’t tell by my avatar, is a favorite movie of mine) where Stitch sits all alone and realizes he is alone and cries out for help. It is only because he has realized that Lilo does have a family that he realizes that he does not. Not only that, but he also comes to see a family as something essential that he is lacking.


It takes a lot to say that. How many times do we not say it because we don’t realize we need it?  How many times do we think we are fine because we have never seen that we are not?

“What a wretched man I am! Who will save me from this dying body? I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord!…”

Romans 7:24-25a



Five Minute Friday is a link-up where you free write for 5 minutes on the topic. This week’s topic is Help. Find other blogger’s interpretations here.

Where do we get this idea of “help”? Why do we ask? Why do we give it?

Build (FMF)

Now is the time where I begin building my life.

I am a young adult; an age with many opportunities and decisions. Now is when I must decide what I am basing my life on. I have to choose which foundation. No longer can I do the “lowest common denominator” (remember those from fractions?). I can’t just do the basic things that fit into all 5 of my favoritest world views.

If I want to actually build something which my life, I must make sure my foundation is level and choose which blueprint to use. I have to start making decisions according to that philosophy. And when I do, people will start to know which blueprint I am using.

Am I building according to Humanism? Do I really think God is the only god? If I believe people need to know about Christ, how does the way I live my life support that?


Five Minute Friday is a link-up where you free write for 5 minutes on the topic. This week’s topic is Build. Find other blogger’s interpretations here.

Good thing I had to stop at 5 Minutes. The list of questions that swirls around my head can go on and on and get overwhelming. What questions do you ask yourself?

‘Closure’ Documentary Review

Ever wondered what it is like for an adoptee to search for and meet her birth parents?

‘Closure’ Trailer

This is usually a private, very personal journey, but Angela and Byran Tucker invite people into this sacred passage in their documentary Closure. It centers around Angela, a trans-racial adoptee, and her search to find her birth mother, birth father, and eventually her entire biological family. Well, not entire family- but I won’t give too much away.

The relationship between a child who is adopted and their biological family is always a unique, personal story. Closure allows viewers to get a glimpse of what it is like for an adoptee to process their own story and identity. Angela and her family- adopted and biological- have invited the viewers into their lives, openly sharing their fears, hopes, and hurts. I cannot emphasize enough how transparent Angela and her family are on this sacred ground, in their hopes to educate and encourage others.

Closure is currently on Netflix and can also be found on Amazon Video. The website is http://closuredocumentary.com